09/04/11

Family

Oc guys...
For the very first thing that I want to share is about family. Family is one of the  kinds of environment that we have told before. As we know, family is the smallest part of society. So, I think family is very suitable as the first environment that influence the students study habit.

Oc..
When we talk about family, it is about the conducive in it. Children or students will get more power to study when they know that their family always

support and give them more spirit. This support or spirit from the parents has a relation to students psychology. It also has a tight related about the student and situation when they study.
Imagine that if a student studies after he/she got angry by his/her parents. Can he/she study well? I think the answer is absolutely "No".
Student is like a sailing ship that the direction of it depends on the wind. When the wind towards to left, the sailing ship also move to the left and when the wind towards to right, the sailing ship also move to the right.
I mean that one of the things that influences the children habit to study is family. Like I said before, the conducive, the comfort, and the peace of the house is what the children need.


In this case, the important role is in parents. The parents is "the wind" that direct the sailing ship(as in my analogy). The parents should spend more time to their children. The parents also should give a great motivation to their children to study. More, the parents must save the conducive of family. If all of these done by the parents, Hopefully, the children motivation to study will be increase.

Now, how the children can keep studying when their family is not conducive? First, the children should find another place at home that quite and comfort to study. I think your bedroom is good or maybe in the up stair or maybe toilet. Because at there, you will find the quite place to study. Second, maybe you can go out to your friend's home to study together. This way also can increase study motivation. The last but not the least, you can wait until the situation become conducive although it maybe take a long time.

All of these things are about children environment especially in family. How great or embarrassing the students in the future depends on the conducive of family.

So, we as a higher level than the children, we should realize this thing. Sometime, we also experience this thing. Now, we have known the way to keep studying although the family condition is not conducive. We can also follow those ways to make us study with concentration.

Hope this article useful for us.
Happy weekend.

Evandreas Teguh

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